How poor emotional control can affect your relationship

Poor emotional control can affect your relationship in many different ways.This is because without emotional balance it is difficult to have a harmonious relationship.Related problems would include physical and verbal abuse.

If you are in a relationship with a man with poor emotional control,you are in for a rough ride.This is because a man with poor emotional control can very easily become violent.One of the signs of poor emotional control is frequent quarrels and fights over the simplest things like watching TV and doing the dishes.

This is especially the case if the man feels that being addressed as the head of the family means he has to be in control of every decision that is made in the family.Nobody can have that kind of control over another human being especially your wife without leading to serious emotional friction.

Such an attitude would lead to lack of exchange of ideas and thoughts when decisions are made.Unfortunately this kind of attitude can be compounded by the abuse of cultural and religious precepts. This may lead to women being shut down and any attempt to speak their mind being curtailed in the name of culture and religion.

This will invariably lead to internal frustrations which when not addressed between husband and wife can lead to very serious conflicts.

To deal with poor emotional control and its related problems every relationship should have a communications day ,when questions with regards to motives behind actions are freely asked.