Getting your guy back,if you want him.

Getting your guy back after a break up,if you want him ,can be difficult  especially if he broke up with you. You probably don't feel or even act like yourself at this point.  Life almost seems like it has lost its meaning with him in it. At this point your emotions are down and you may even  be feeling depressed.

Getting back with someone who broke up with you can be a very difficult task,especially if you were not expecting the break up For whatever reason, the other person decided that it was time to let go.  They just wanted it to end.  It's usually easier to work out a relationship while you're still in it; as opposed to when it has ended.At least this is what conventional wisdom says.

With that being said, you can get a guy back if he broke up with you.  The most critical aspect to this is you are absolutely positive that getting back with him is exactly what you want. Are you sure it is what you want? Make sure your motives for getting back with him are the right ones.  Don't want him back just to have him back or to prove to your friends that nobody walks out on you.

The second most important aspect to getting your  guy back is to realize that  it  doesn't. work all the time.Try with realistic expectations.  Some people can make up and move on.  Others, they just can't recapture the magic of the relationship they once shared. Do not allow fear of the unknown stop you from trying.

If you want to get  your guy back, you must,first get your emotions in check.  Guys do not want to be with women who can't keep their emotions under control.Not that the guys always do better with their own emotions  If you attempt to contact him while you don't have control of your emotions you may do even more damage.  For example, if he was starting to miss you and think about you, but you contact him and you're an emotional mess, you may make him realize that his choice to break up with you was the right one.

The best thing you can do is instead of worrying about what he's doing.Even if you  feel sad that you don't have him, take steps to keep on  living your own life.  You must prove to him that you can be mature about this breakup.  Keep up with your daily routines.  Do your hair nice, wear makeup, wear clothes that make you feel good about yourself.  Hang out with your mutual friends.

If you're staying active and living your life without bothering him, you will have a better chance to get him back.  If you stay out of contact with him, no calls, no email, no text messages, nothing, you'll probably find that he will eventually call you, or get in touch with you.

When he does, just keep it brief.  Tell him how busy you've been.  Don't get mushy or gush out feelings for him.  Act indifferent and aloof.  This will confuse him.  If he wants to see you again, make sure you look your best.  Don't let him touch you or kiss you.  Before you leave, if you want, give him a hug but that's it.  This will drive him crazy.  From this point, you should be able to get  your guy back pretty easily.  Just take it slow.

As you can see,to  get your  guy back, you just have work on getting your emotions under control.  Live your life to the fullest.  Always look your best, because that will help you to feel your best.Once you feel your best you will glitter.  Back off, give him space. This will give him time to really miss you. He'll most likely contact you and want to see you again.  When he does, be a little bit of a tease.  Make him work for your affections again.This way he will value you more and comeback with greater intensity.

When you do get back,make sure you set the ground rules of the relationship this time,so that you do not get hurt again.Click on make it better by making up